Today’s post is about loss. Loss can be a strange force because sometimes a person feels an acute loss for something they only had a brief second. Or maybe they find out they lost it before they even knew for certain that they had it. But now that you know, there is a deep pain in your heart.
There is nothing you can do to change what happened and there is no one to blame – these things just happen sometimes.
I try to be reassuring, try to tell them that it will work out, that they will get another chance. But they both are very sad – much more so then they ever thought they’d be. I’m sad for them too but also for myself. The “what if’s” kaleidoscope through our brains along with the “what happens now?”
One thing I do know is I shouldn’t be here in Florida when they are going through this. I should be there to hand out hugs and dry tears. I need to move home – that is all there is to it.
